7 Reasons Why Modern Relationships Fail !
Why Modern Relationships Fail?
Relationships are supposed to be cherished throughout our lives let it be a Love Realtionship or a general Relationship. but in modern world people have either filled their relationships with time-pass or with neglecting behaviours.
Social media has made the concept of a Love relationship look so pleasing to the eyes that people irrespective of their ages try to get into a relationship and end up scaring the two of them through their so called relationship. this para is about those nibba-nibbi relationship that we see on social media too often, but what about a mature realtionship ?
Why do Relationships fail?
1. YOU ARE NOT READY FOR IT
As I mentioned earlier , people tend to get into a relationship even without knowing if they are ready for it or not. there has to be a certain matured thinking level to be ready for a relationship at the first place or else the relationships don't quite workout because none of the two are mentally ready for the relationship and they just want to show it off to the social media to get the "cool" tag by the so called "Memer and Tiktok Society".
2. YOU ARE TOO BUSY TO SETTLE YOURSELF
Life in this YUG is full of ambitious people and competitive society culture. this is why most of the people appear to be too busy with their life and work to be focusing on their relationship and this is the phase of a relationship when unnecessary doubts start conquering the minds of both the parties engaging themselves in that relationship.
3. YOU ARE CONFUSED
The biggest reason for your relationship to be not working out properly may be your confusion about the concept of relationship. People get into a Relationship mostly when they are in love and want to spend rest of their time with their partner.
but On the other hand some people or let's say a good number of people get into a relationship to either show it off to their friends/social media or for the feeling of social interaction.
this confusion later on mixes up the feeling of a person about their relationship because they don't realise if they are in actual love or not.
I have written an article on how to find out if you're in actual Love or not. to read it [CLICK HERE].
4.YOU WANT THE FRUIT RIGHT NOW
This age of instant everything has made people so full of impatience that they think of a relationship to be an instant shot of happiness and feeling of being cared about.
Ever heard "Good things come to those who wait" ? yes exactly , most people fail to realise that a relationship is like a plant. it will not give you the fruits instantly , you will have to nurture the relationship with efforts and love. think of making the other person happy it will subconsciously make you happy too and the relationship will bloom.
this brings me to the next point which is ..
5.EFFORT IS TOO MUCH FOR YOU
If a person thinks that making efforts to keep the relationship full of happiness is too much for them then surely they are not even close to be mentally ready for a relationship. A relationship is supposed to be all about making efforts to make the other person happy. it is supposed to be the meaning of Growing in life together , facing good and bad times together.
6.YOU ARE IN WALLS
If you have Anxiety issues or introvert nature then probabilities are that you have guarded yourself in a cage and have "not much" interactions with people or your loved one. this may result into your partner thinking that they are not able to keep you happy.
A relationship is all about being in everything with each other , it is about sharing everything with each other
your loved one is supposed to be your soul mate if you are perfectly in love with them.
7.YOU DON'T LIVE "REAL LIFE"
If you are a lot into social life then you are missing out a lot in your real life and chances are that you are not living your real life. you may not be taking part in the relationship actively if you are too much into social media and stuff.
IN THE END ,
A relationship is all about suffering and blooming together. let whatever come to your way tackle it together with your partner for a successful love relationship if you are really into your partner or else don't waste your time as well as their time.
NO relationship is perfect , it is us who make it perfect.
A relationship is all about effort and togetherness so sit and interact more with your partner and solve even the smallest of issues that you guys are having. learn to make sacrifices for LOVE and FAMILY.
"A Relationships is a treasure , not a toy for time pass" don't let yourself think of it the other way around.
Thanks for reading.
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